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What matters most
Name the people, places, comforts, and qualities of life that should guide every decision.
A gentle plan for the people you love
Love shouldn’t have to guess.
The Goodbye Plan makes space for the conversations, decisions, and details that can make a hard time a little easier on your family.
Take your time. Begin where you are. Update it whenever life changes.
Kindred Wishes presents
The Goodbye
Plan
A practical workbook for the people you love.
Love shouldn’t have to guess
“You don’t have to plan your death. You just have to make things easier for the people you love.”
No legalese or doom spirals.
A little more clarity, one page at a time.
Built for real families and real life.
A place to put it all
A plan that feels more like a conversation than paperwork.
The Goodbye Plan walks you through the important things without asking you to become an expert, do it perfectly, or finish it all today.
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If I cannot speak
Give the person you trust the clarity they need to speak up with confidence and love.
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The practical stuff
Make the important documents, contacts, pets, home details, and digital life easier to find.
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Things I want you to know
Leave room for the memories, messages, music, and personal wishes only you can share.
For the day no one plans for
The “Oh Shit” Emergency Sheet keeps the most important answers close.
One printable page for the fridge, file box, or somewhere obvious: who to call, where the documents are, and what your family needs right now.
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Who should we call?
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Who is my healthcare proxy?
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Where are the important documents?
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What matters to me most?
Start where you are
Four gentle ways to make things easier.
Begin gently
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10 Questions Your Family Will Wish You Had Answered
A clear, no-pressure way to begin the conversations that matter—before a hospital room makes them necessary.
Make it known
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The Goodbye Plan
A warm, practical workbook for putting your values, wishes, important details, and final words in one loving place.
Bring everyone in
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Family Edition
Conversation cards and family-centered worksheets for turning quiet intentions into shared understanding.
Get a hand
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Plan with Becky
A private planning session for anyone who would feel better talking the hard parts through with a real person.
One loving thing you can do today
Make the hard decisions easier before they’re urgent.
There is no perfect time for this conversation. There is only a kinder way to start it.